Sunglasses Etiquette
Sunglasses are more popular than ever and are a big fashion statement for many. Remember those large dark glasses Jacqueline Kennedy made famous? How about Audrey Hepburn in the movie, “Breakfast at Tiffany’s?” And then there were those iconic aviator style glasses that Tom Cruise wore in the movie, “Top Gun.”
Sunglasses can be something people hide behind if they don’t want to be noticed and they can also offer an air of mystery about who’s behind those glasses.
Sunglasses also provide eye protection from harmful UV rays. These days, it is even recommended that children wear them.
However, there are some rules of courtesy that should be observed as to when not to wear them.
Don’t wear them at night. For one, it can reduce your ability to see, but it also can make you look like you are hiding something.
Take them off when you are indoors. Unless you have just had your eyes dilated or have another vision issue, sunglasses should come off when you go indoors. If you do have an eye issue, offer an apology for not removing your sunglasses if you are speaking with someone indoors. Wearing sunglasses indoors can be perceived as rude and disrespectful.
Remove them when you are conducting business. Eye contact is an important component to doing business. People want to see your eyes when they talk with you. If you are conducting business outside with a client, try moving into a shady area so you won’t be too bothered by the sun.
Take them off when being introduced to people outdoors. If you are being introduced to someone at a sporting event or outdoors anytime, do remove your glasses during the introductions. Eye contact is a courtesy and is an important nonverbal form of communication when meeting and greeting people. It also leaves a much better first impression.
Choose your style wisely. Choose your style of sunglasses to match what you do, especially if you wear them in professional settings. Save the outrageous and fancy styles for your time on the beach or by the pool.
Take them off for photos. Be sure to remove sunglasses when being photographed or if you are taking selfies.
Remove them if on TV. On the slim chance that you may be on TV some day, be sure to remove them. leaving them on will take away from your “celebrity” status.
So, as in so many other situations, when in doubt, err on the side of courtesy and take them off.
Suzanne Nourse says
Once again, excellent tips Karen.
Many people forget to remove their sunglasses when speaking with someone else. At least remove them when you initially say hello.
I have recently noticed a couple of men (in separate locations) wearing wrap around sunglasses backwards when indoors. One man was bald and it really looked like he had two faces! Attention may have been his intent but it was rather disconcerting.:) Not a good look.
karenhickman says
I always appreciate your comments, Suzanne. I have seen that done as well, and it isn’t a good look.