Holiday House Guest Etiquette
The perfect house guest.
If you happen to be a guest, even a family guest at holiday time, here are some guidelines that will help you be a considerate and perfect house guest and get invited back.
Be on time.
Arrive on the appointed date. Don’t arrive earlier or stay later than the dates agreed upon. And don’t bring any extra people with you.
Bring a gift
Bring a small hostess gift. A gift of food, wine or something that can be used during your stay or be saved after you have gone is considerate. If your stay is lengthy, offer to take your hosts out to dinner at some point during your visit.
Leave Fido at home.
Leave your pets at home. Asking to bring pets can cause a lot of confusion and extra stress for the host. If they do insist and say it’s okay, then feel free to bring Fido along.
Don’t expect to be waited on.
Don’t expect to be waited on. Your hosts are not your servants and you should be prepared to help out by making your bed daily, keeping your clothes and personal items together and out of the way and leaving the bathroom picked up.
Be helpful.
Do offer to help in the kitchen with food prep and cleaning up. Your host may decline your offer, but your willingness to help will not go unnoticed.
Dress accordingly.
Ask about the schedule of events during your stay. If there are outings or sporting events planned be sure to be prepared with the expected attire so you will be appropriately dressed.
Be prepared to entertain yourself.
Allow for some down time. Don’t expect to be entertained every minute of every day by your host. Finding time to do some things on your own can be a welcome respite for your host.
Follow the rules.
Follow the house rules. If the host retires at a certain time, consider retreating to your room instead of staying up all night watching TV. And don’t expect to sleep until noon when the rest of the house is up early and ready to go for the day.
Unplug!
Unplug. Avoid being on your phone or electronic devises constantly in front of others, especially at the dinner table. If you have to check messages and take calls, excuse yourself and find a quiet place to do that.
Maintain a sense of modesty.
Bring a robe. You may have to share a bathroom that is down the hall. And if acceptable, you may want to wear one at breakfast. However, if everyone else is dressed at the table, I recommend dressing for breakfast.
Be reasonable with dietary requests.
Don’t make unreasonable dietary demands. If you have special dietary needs, be prepared to bring some of your own food or pick another time to visit.
Leave things in good shape.
Strip your bed and gather dirty towels the day you leave. Some hosts may not want you to bother, but offering is appreciated.
Send a proper thank you.
Do send a handwritten thank you note or a gift after your visit.
All of these suggestions demonstrate proper Holiday House Guest Etiquette.
