Thanksgiving starts off the holiday gatherings in earnest. It’s the time we eat drink and make merry and share good times with family and friends. It is also the time we gather at the dining room table for special meals. So if you have been invited for dinner at someone else’s house, there are some things to keep in mind so you can be the perfect guest. So here’s some guest Thanksgiving etiquette.
Arrive on time. Showing up late and keeping everyone waiting or causing the turkey to dry out
doesn’t win any points with your hostess.
Don’t come empty handed. Even if your hostess has the meal all taken care of be sure you bring some sort of hostess gift. This is a good time to bring wine or a gourmet food item that the host can use at another time.
If you are assigned a dish, be sure you bring what you say and that it is ready to go in the oven or be served so you don’t cause more confusion in the kitchen.
Sit where you are assigned. If place cards are on the table don’t move them around to sit by someone of your choice.
Bring your best manners to the table. If need be, brush up on your dining etiquette.
Don’t bring your technology to the table.
Make sure your children are supervised and well behaved at the table, too.
Try a little of everything served. You may find out that you like that oyster dressing.
Offer to help with the dishes.
Send a thank you note after the day .
Most of all, bring your good humor and be tolerant of those who may make you a little crazy at other times of the year. Be of good cheer.
