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Reach Out and Touch Your Patients

December 4, 2013 by procourtesy

More and more, I hear business people say that they don’t like to touch people, shake hands or to be touched by others due to the risk of getting germs. This is a very sad commentary, as far as I am concerned. But even sadder, to me, was to hear nurses say they don’t like to touch their patients because they feel they are unclean or they don’t want to risk getting their germs.

While I appreciate not wanting to get someone’s germs that may cause an illness, I think to take the “no touch” approach with your patients is risky and very damaging to developing a mutually respectful relationship.

Nurses and physicians are certainly taught techniques on hand washing, maintaining sterile fields, dealing with patients who are infectious by using isolation procedures and various other ways to protect themselves and avoid spreading diseases to other people. So why the resistance to touch your patients?

I think it is multifaceted with some of it brought on by how high-tech medicine has become. Healthcare workers are now booting up their computers to enter data and the answers to the questions they ask their patients, often, before they even shake their hand or make eye contact with them. Physicians are now able to do every test imaginable to diagnose patients that it seems rather easy to forget about actually putting your hands on the patient. I have even had people tell me they received a complete physical without ever having taken any clothes off. This is unimaginable to me. If physicians aren’t actually looking at someone’s body, I would guess they are missing some things.

We know from studies that babies who are not touched fail to thrive and some, even die. The human touch is a big part of diagnosing and healing. Imagine the elderly patient who lives alone and has no one to hug them. Touching people and being touched is essential to life. We all seek touch from those we love. Why not make sure it is part of the equation when caring for patients.

So, here are some tips to ensure you make some sort of physical contact with your patients:

  • Upon entering a patient’s room in the hospital or the office exam room, extend your hand to meet them before you go to the computer to start asking questions.

  • If handshaking is not possible, touch the patient on the shoulder, or arm. This is a comforting gesture when consoling them or delivering bad news…something they will appreciate.

  • Spend a few moments talking directly to the patient. Note the color of their eyes to make sure you are making appropriate eye contact.

  • Introduce yourself and let them know what you do and who you are; nurse, tech, P.A., etc.

  • While entering data in your computer, look at the patient while asking the question and then look at the keyboard when entering their answers. Reassure the patient that you are listening to them.

  • Shake hands or extend another touch upon leaving the exam room. Your touch will be noted.

If you still don’t want to touch your patients, maybe you should reevaluate why you went into medicine. Compassion is important in caring for the sick.

And for those business people who don’t like to shake hands…to refuse to shake hands with someone is a huge insult. Shaking hands is the universally accepted way to touch others in almost, every country in the world. So, reach out and touch someone, then go use your antibacterial wipes

Filed Under: medical etiquette, medical manners Tagged With: addressing patients formally, compassion in medicine, etiquette expert, eye contact, Karen Hickman, meeting and greeting patients, Professional Courtesy, professional courtesy in healthcare, professional nurses, Touching patients

Are You A Real Health Care Professional?

July 19, 2013 by procourtesy

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Are You a Real Health care Professional?
The healthcare arena today, has workers with many different levels of education. However, regardless of the letters after your name, there are certain skills that everyone should have in order to be perceived as a “professional” health care worker. While the technical skills are necessary to deliver competent care to a patient, the soft skills are the skills that set you apart. Not developing those skills can make you less effective as a caregiver and co-worker and tarnish the title, “professional.”

Patients assume you know how to do your job in the clinical sense, but it is how you deliver that care that makes all of the difference in their perception of the care they receive.

Take a step back and ask yourself some questions about how you conduct yourself when caring for patients and working with others.

  • Am I giving my patients my undivided attention immediately upon seeing them?
  • Do I introduce myself and state my position with every new patient encounter?
  • Do I shake hands with the patient and their family members?
  • Do I give good eye contact when speaking and listening to a patient? Can I note the color of their eyes?
  • Do I connect with the patient personally before starting to chart on the computer?
  • Do I look at the patient when I ask a question and return to the keyboard to enter data?
  • Am I respectful by addressing patients formally, especially older patients?
  • What message does my body language convey? Do I have my hand on the door knob and one foot out the door before I close the conversation with the patient?
  • Am I well-groomed from top to bottom? Do I have on clean shoes and a pressed uniform?
  • Do I chew gum in public?
  • Am I sensitive to the needs of my co-workers? Do I offer help before being asked?
  • Do I manage up my co-workers and the physicians?
  • Do I pull rank on team members?
  • Do I recognize the value of everyone on the team?

Don’t just let the letters behind your name define you as a professional. If you answered no to many of these questions it may be time to review some professional courtesy skills to improve the perception others have of you as a “professional” and to become a genuine professional.

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